Shane Tan

“With most people suicide is like Russian roulette. Only one chamber has a bullet. With the Lisbon girls, the gun was loaded. A bullet for family abuse. A bullet for genetic predisposition. A bullet for historical malaise. A bullet for inevitable momentum. The two other bullets are impossible to name, but that doesn't mean the chambers were empty.”
― jeffrey eugenides, The Virgin Suicides

“Ever since the field of biology emerged in the United States and Europe at the start of the nineteenth century, it has been bound up in debates over sexual, racial, and national politics. And as our social viewpoints have shifted, so has the science of the body.”
― Anne Fausto-Sterling, Sexing the Body: Gender Politics and the Construction of Sexuality

“In the heat of an argument, my mother once told me, "Someday you can go to a therapist and tell him all about how your terrible mother ruined your life. But it will be your ruined life you're talking about. So make a life for yourself in which you can feel happy, and in which you can love and be loved, because that's what's actually important." You can love someone but not accept him; you can accept someone but not love him. I wrongly felt the flaws in my parents' acceptance as deficits in their love. Now, I think their primary experience was of having a child who spoke a language they'd never thought of studying.”
― Andrew Solomon, Far from the Tree: Parents, Children, and the Search for Identity

“I hate the loss of diversity in the world, even though I sometimes get a little worn out by being that diversity.”
― Andrew Solomon, Far from the Tree: Parents, Children, and the Search for Identity