“having DID in itself creates intense shame. A person continually has to deal with not remembering what one has said or done. Thus, the person with DID must be quick with inferences and cover-ups. Unfortunately, this often convinces her, as well as others, that she is a liar.”
― Knowing, Not-Knowing and Sort-of-Knowing
― Knowing, Not-Knowing and Sort-of-Knowing
“They say family's first, but family is the first to get you hurt”
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“জাতীয় সম্পদের প্রতি এই যে শ্রদ্ধার অভাব, এও এক প্রকার অপসংস্কৃতি।”
― আর এক আশাপূর্ণা
― আর এক আশাপূর্ণা
“We each have our own ways of sabotaging & keeping ourselves down…Do we need to remain the victim so strongly that we pull the ceiling down upon our own heads? There is a comfort in the familiar. Also, it is important to us to be in control because as children being abused we were not at all in control. In self-sabotage we can be both the victim & the victimizer.”
― Beyond Survival: A Writing Journey for Healing Childhood Sexual Abuse
― Beyond Survival: A Writing Journey for Healing Childhood Sexual Abuse
“If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman you can be sure he is not protecting your heart. He is protecting himself and the women he has feelings for. Wise women simply see things as they are, not as their low self-esteem allows.”
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