“We each have our own ways of sabotaging & keeping ourselves down…Do we need to remain the victim so strongly that we pull the ceiling down upon our own heads? There is a comfort in the familiar. Also, it is important to us to be in control because as children being abused we were not at all in control. In self-sabotage we can be both the victim & the victimizer.”
― Beyond Survival: A Writing Journey for Healing Childhood Sexual Abuse
― Beyond Survival: A Writing Journey for Healing Childhood Sexual Abuse
“They say family's first, but family is the first to get you hurt”
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“জাতীয় সম্পদের প্রতি এই যে শ্রদ্ধার অভাব, এও এক প্রকার অপসংস্কৃতি।”
― আর এক আশাপূর্ণা
― আর এক আশাপূর্ণা
“If the sound of happy children is grating on your ears, I don't think it's the children who need to be adjusted.”
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“When you are not on your pedestal you are not interesting.”
― De Profundis
― De Profundis
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