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“People decide what you're like before they even get to know you”
― Everything I Never Told You
― Everything I Never Told You
“We take this idea of love with us into adulthood. Grown up, we hope for a re-creation of what it felt like to be ministered to and indulged. In a secret corner of our mind, we picture a lover who will anticipate our needs, read our hearts, act selflessly and make everything better. It sounds ‘romantic’; yet it is a blueprint for disaster.”
― The Course of Love
― The Course of Love
“There is no one more likely to destroy us than the person we marry.”
― The Course of Love
― The Course of Love
“It is less painful, it turns out, to feel betrayed than to feel forgotten.”
― The Examined Life: How We Lose and Find Ourselves
― The Examined Life: How We Lose and Find Ourselves
“Why wasn’t friendship as good as a relationship? Why wasn’t it even better? It was two people who remained together, day after day, bound not by sex or physical attraction or money or children or property, but only by the shared agreement to keep going, the mutual dedication to a union that could never be codified.”
― A Little Life
― A Little Life
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