Ida

“Have you fallen in love with the wrong person yet?'
Jace said, "Unfortunately, Lady of the Haven, my one true love remains myself."
..."At least," she said, "you don't have to worry about rejection, Jace Wayland."
"Not necessarily. I turn myself down occasionally, just to keep it interesting.”
― Cassandra Clare, City of Bones

“But if he can find your daughter, he can be the Evil Earth incarnate and you won’t give a damn.”
― N.K. Jemisin, The Fifth Season