Lazilycurious

“For it is a fact that a man can be profoundly out of step with his times. A
man may have been born in a city famous for its idiosyncratic culture and yet,
the very habits, fashions, and ideas that exalt that city in the eyes of the world
may make no sense to him at all. As he proceeds through life, he looks about in
a state of confusion, understanding neither the inclinations nor the aspirations
of his peers.
For such a fellow, forget any chance of romance or professional success;
those are the provenance of men in step with their times. Instead, for this fellow
the options will be to bray like a mule or find what solace he can from
overlooked volumes discovered in overlooked bookshops. And when his
roommate stumbles home at two in the morning, he has little choice but to
listen in silent mystification as he is recounted the latest dramas from the city’s
salons.”
― Amor Towles, A Gentleman in Moscow