Tess

“Do the best you can until you know better. Then when you know better, do better.”
― attributed to Maya Aangelou

“How are you practicing what you preach—whatever you preach, and who is exactly listening?”
― Audre Lorde, Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches

“As Black people, if there is one thing we can learn from the 60s, it is how infinitely complex any move for liberation must be. For we must move against not only those forces which dehumanize us from the outside, but also against those oppressive values which we have been forced to take into ourselves. Through examining the combination of our triumphs and errors, we can examine the dangers of an incomplete vision. Not to condemn that vision but to alter it, construct templates for possible futures, and focus our rage for change upon our enemies rather than upon each other.”
― Audre Lorde, Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches

“I cannot hide my anger to spare you guilt, nor hurt feelings, nor answering anger; for to do so insults and trivializes all our efforts. Guilt is not a response to anger; it is a response to one's own actions or lack of action. If it leads to change then it can be useful, since it is then no longer guilt but the beginning of knowledge.”
― Audre Lorde, Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches