“The fastest way to sound unintelligent is to say, “This idea is wrong.” (That idea may be wrong for you, but it exists because it is right to someone else.)”
― 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think
― 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think
“Eric Greitens says that there are three primary forms of happiness: the happiness of pleasure, the happiness of grace, and the happiness of excellence5”
― 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think
― 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think
“We want to be authors but have no desire to develop the discipline it takes to sit down and write for four hours a day for years on end. We want to be legends and geniuses and masters, but care little to develop the discipline it would require to log our 10,000 hours—so to say.”
― 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think
― 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think
“To drink in excess, for example—the happiness of pleasure—is common when the happiness of excellence isn’t being pursued. But it is not, and will never be, the solution. “Lots and lots of red will never make blue. Pleasures will never make you whole.”
― 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think
― 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think
“They listen to hear, not respond. While listening to other people speak, they focus on what is being said, not how they are going to respond. This is also known as the meta practice of “holding space.”
― 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think
― 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think
Val’s 2025 Year in Books
Take a look at Val’s Year in Books, including some fun facts about their reading.
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Biography, Business, Cookbooks, Fiction, Non-fiction, Philosophy, Psychology, Science, Self help, and Travel
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