“Marriage was an economic institution in which you were given a partnership for life in terms of children and social status and succession and companionship. But now we want our partner to still give us all these things, but in addition I want you to be my best friend and my trusted confidant and my passionate lover to boot, and we live twice as long. So we come to one person, and we basically are asking them to give us what once an entire village used to provide: Give me belonging, give me identity, give me continuity, but give me transcendence and mystery and awe all in one. Give me comfort, give me edge. Give me novelty, give me familiarity. Give me predictability, give me surprise. And we think it’s a given, and toys and lingerie are going to save us with that. Ideally, though, we’re lucky, and we find our soul mate and enjoy that life-changing mother lode of happiness. But a soul mate is a very hard thing to find.”
― Modern Romance
― Modern Romance
“When I've really been in love with someone, it's not because they looked a certain way or liked a certain TV show or a certain cuisine. It's more because when I watched a certain TV show or ate a certain cuisine with them, it was the most fun thing ever.”
― Modern Romance
― Modern Romance
“Alas, I've tried to be honest, because honesty makes me feel less alone.”
― Scrappy Little Nobody
― Scrappy Little Nobody
“Self-doubt is healthy! Self-doubt keeps me in check!”
― Scrappy Little Nobody
― Scrappy Little Nobody
“All at once it occurs to me that I'm the one who needs to give myself the break, to accept myself for who I am.”
― Hello?
― Hello?
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