“Bessel van der Kolk: “Trauma is when we are not seen and known.”
― The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture
― The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture
“You’re bored, not exhausted; apathetic, not overwhelmed. You’ve got to get your ambition back. Otherwise, the slightest problem or mishap is going to derail you. Part of learning to dance is building up the muscles to take those basic steps.”
― The Warrior Poet Way: A Guide to Living Free and Dying Well
― The Warrior Poet Way: A Guide to Living Free and Dying Well
“Compassion as a spontaneous aspect of Self blew my mind, because I’d always assumed and learned that compassion was something you had to develop. There’s this idea—especially in some spiritual circles—that you have to build up the muscle of compassion over time, because it’s not inherent. Again, that’s the negative view on human nature at play. To be clear, what I mean by compassion is the ability to be in Self with somebody when they’re really hurting and feel for them, but not be overwhelmed by their pain. You can only do that if you’ve done it within yourself. That is, if you can be with your own exiles without blending and being overwhelmed by them and instead show them compassion and help them, then you can do the same for someone in pain who’s sitting across from you.”
― No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model
― No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model
“As long as a man trades his warrior instinct for entertainment, his soul will not be satisfied. He will be perpetually bored, searching for a way to kill time and quell his longings. A man who’s consumed by his mission, however, who knows what life is about and his part to play, doesn’t need a distraction. His life is the adventure.”
― The Warrior Poet Way: A Guide to Living Free and Dying Well
― The Warrior Poet Way: A Guide to Living Free and Dying Well
“There simply is no better way, truth, or life to be found than that of Jesus.”
― Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.
― Practicing the Way: Be with Jesus. Become like him. Do as he did.
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