Iris Coldibelli

“Our most important task is to detect and acknowledge this conflict. If we shy away from this inner work, if we don’t explore why at a certain point in a relationship the record gets stuck, then it will simply start all over again until we finally withdraw with a broken heart or turn into a notoriously heartless Casanova. This work can’t be done by our conscious mind alone. Even if we decide never to have a relationship like our last one, vow never to go through anything like that ever again, swear never to want anyone like that ever again and then consciously choose a very different type of person from our previous partner, believing that this time everything will be different, our hidden patterns, beliefs and wounds will ensure that everything repeats itself all over again.”
― Eva-Maria Zurhorst, Love Yourself And It Doesn't Matter Who You Marry