Kat
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“Do you hear that?” Ethan asked. “Hear what?” For five seconds, Ethan was silent on the line. “That’s the sound of me not giving a fuck.”
“Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented. ELIE WIESEL”
― It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
― It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People
“I am unable to understand those who do love me in spite of it all, and so I test them. ‘You love me even when I do this? Or this? Or this?’ Even when the other person forgives me, I am unable to understand their forgiveness, and when they give up on me, I torture and console myself with the ‘fact’ that no one could ever love me. That”
― I Want to Die but I Want to Eat Tteokbokki
― I Want to Die but I Want to Eat Tteokbokki
“Why do you choose to write about such gruesome subjects? I usually answer this with another question: Why do you assume that I have a choice?”
― Night Shift
― Night Shift
“I am often given the big smiling handshake at parties (which I avoid attending whenever possible) by someone who then, with an air of gleeful conspiracy, will say, “You know, I've always wanted to write.” I used to try to be polite. These days I reply with the same jubilant excitement: “You know, I've always wanted to be a brain surgeon.” They look puzzled. It doesn't matter. There are a lot of puzzled people wandering around lately. If you want to write, you write. The only way to learn to write is by writing. And that would not be a useful approach to brain surgery.”
― Night Shift
― Night Shift
“The loss of social connection, for example, turns out to trigger the same system as physical pain—explaining why the death of a family member, a breakup, or even just a social snub can cause such distress. In one simple experiment, it was discovered that over-the-counter painkillers reduced social pain.”
― Digital Minimalism: Choosing a Focused Life in a Noisy World
― Digital Minimalism: Choosing a Focused Life in a Noisy World
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