

“The moment you stop smoking, everything that goes wrong in your life is blamed on the fact that you’ve stopped smoking. Now when you have a mental block, instead of just getting on with it you start to say, ‘If only I could light up now, it would solve my problem.’ You then start to question your decision to quit smoking.”
― Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking: Be a Happy Non-smoker for the Rest of Your Life
― Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking: Be a Happy Non-smoker for the Rest of Your Life

“Wouldn’t that be an incredibly stupid thing to do? To say ‘I never want to smoke again’, then spend the rest of your life saying ‘I’d love a cigarette.’ That’s what smokers who use the Willpower Method do. No wonder they feel so miserable. They spend the rest of their lives desperately moping for something that they desperately hope they will never have.”
― Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking: Be a Happy Non-smoker for the Rest of Your Life
― Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking: Be a Happy Non-smoker for the Rest of Your Life

“However, you cannot force smokers to stop, and although all smokers secretly want to, until they are ready to do so a pact just creates additional pressure, which increases their desire to smoke. This turns them into secret smokers, which further increases the feeling of dependency.”
― Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking: Be a Happy Non-smoker for the Rest of Your Life
― Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking: Be a Happy Non-smoker for the Rest of Your Life
“And once I realized that code I write never fucking goes away and I'm going to be a maintainer for life. I get comments about blog posts that are almost 10 years old. "Hey, I found this code. I found a bug," and I'm suddenly maintaining code.”
― Coders at Work: Reflections on the Craft of Programming
― Coders at Work: Reflections on the Craft of Programming

“There are people who can make love standing on a hammock, but it is not the easiest way.”
― Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking: Be a Happy Non-smoker for the Rest of Your Life
― Allen Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking: Be a Happy Non-smoker for the Rest of Your Life
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