Rebecca Shoemaker

“Her left eye wanders, and I wish I were possessed of a compass to determine to which cardinal direction the eye points most often.”
― Virginia Feito, Victorian Psycho

“Being healed isn’t about feeling nothing. Being healed is about feeling the appropriate emotions at the appropriate times and still being able to come back to yourself. That’s just life.”
― Stephanie Foo, What My Bones Know: A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma

“Again, women who experienced childhood trauma are 80 percent more likely to experience painful endometriosis.[4] They’re much more likely to develop premenstrual dysphoric disorder. More likely to develop fibroids.[5] It may affect fertility.[6] They’re at greater risk for postpartum depression[7] and depression in menopause.[8]”
― Stephanie Foo, What My Bones Know: A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma

“Forgiveness is this act of love where you say to someone, ‘You’re an imperfect being and I still love you.’ You want to have this energy of ‘We’re not giving up on each other; we’re in this for the long haul. You hurt me. And, yes, I hurt you. And I’m sorry, but you’re still mine.’ ”
― Stephanie Foo, What My Bones Know: A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma