Dan Marks

“I’m not saying you shouldn’t “fit” with your spouse. And, of course, once you’re married he or she will be the only puzzle piece for you. But before that don’t think that I’ve met this great gal, but what if she’s not the one? What if the one is in Boise and I haven’t found her yet? Don’t do that to yourself. Don’t fret about finding your soul mate. And especially after you’re married and you’re having difficulties, don’t tell your pastor, “I’m going to file for divorce; he just wasn’t the one.” The problem with the myth of “the one” is that it assumes that affection is the glue that holds the marriage together, when really it is your commitment to marriage that safeguards the affection. So ditch the myth and get hitched.”
― Kevin DeYoung, Just Do Something: A Liberating Approach to Finding God's Will

“So the end of the matter is this: Live for God. Obey the Scriptures. Think of others before yourself. Be holy. Love Jesus. And as you do these things, do whatever else you like, with whomever you like, wherever you like, and you’ll be walking in the will of God.”
― Kevin DeYoung, Just Do Something: A Liberating Approach to Finding God's Will

“But instead of “letting go and letting God,” we need to make every effort to grow up in our faith (2 Peter 1:5ff).”
― Kevin DeYoung, Just Do Something: A Liberating Approach to Finding God's Will

“There are only two ways of telling the complete truth--anonymously and posthumously.”
― Thomas Sowell