Crina Goras

“Love is blind, they say; sex is impervious to reason and mocks the power of all philosophers. But, in fact, a person's sexual choice is the result and sum of their fundamental convictions. Tell me what a person finds sexually attractive and I will tell you their entire philosophy of life. Show me the person they sleep with and I will tell you their valuation of themselves. No matter what corruption they're taught about the virtue of selflessness, sex is the most profoundly selfish of all acts, an act which they cannot perform for any motive but their own enjoyment - just try to think of performing it in a spirit of selfless charity! - an act which is not possible in self-abasement, only in self-exultation, only on the confidence of being desired and being worthy of desire. It is an act that forces them to stand naked in spirit, as well as in body, and accept their real ego as their standard of value. They will always be attracted to the person who reflects their deepest vision of themselves, the person whose surrender permits them to experience - or to fake - a sense of self-esteem .. Love is our response to our highest values - and can be nothing else.”
― Ayn Rand

“Robert crede că ştie tot despre mine. Nici măcar nu bănuieşte că pot avea o viaţă a mea, independentă de a lui. Mă consideră doar drept o anexă. Îi sunt necesară pentru a se simţi confortabil instalat în existenţă. Sunt soţia lui.”
― André Gide, L'école des femmes suivi de Robert et de Geneviève

“Exist pentru a-l ajuta, nu pentru a-l abate din drumul său.”
― André Gide, L'école des femmes suivi de Robert et de Geneviève

“Men do not attract that which they want, but that which they are.”
― James Allen, As a Man Thinketh