Jonathon Enger

“Sometimes to get your life back, you have to face the death of what you thought your life would look like.”
― Lysa TerKeurst, It's Not Supposed to Be This Way: Finding Unexpected Strength When Disappointments Leave You Shattered

“If someone doesn’t feel like changing, it doesn’t mean they’re lazy or that they don’t want to change deep down. More likely, it means they feel discouraged, like they can’t change, it won’t work, or that it’s just going to be too hard and they’ll fail.”
― Mel Robbins, The Let Them Theory

“People avoid healing because they do not believe they can face the pain they are running from. So Let Them borrow their belief from you. Because when someone feels accepted, loved, and supported, it’s easier for them to believe in their ability to step back into life too.”
― Mel Robbins, The Let Them Theory

“By asking all these open-ended questions, you might just discover that the person you love wants to do well, they just don't think they can right now. It's not an issue of motivation. What's in their way is a lack of belief in their ability to change--they don't think they can. I love this because it shifts you from a place of judgment to compassion, and it creates space for true connection and change to happen.”
― Mel Robbins, The Let Them Theory