“Kalau memang terlihat rumit lupakanlah. Itu jelas bukan cinta sejati kita. Cinta sejati selalu sederhana. Pengorbanan yang sederhana kesetiaan yang tak menuntut apapun dan keindahan yang apa adanya.”
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“for now I’m just throwing it out there and asking you to at least consider that romantic attraction, as wonderful and as emotionally intoxicating as it can be, can actually lead you astray as much as it can help you. I’m not talking it down; “connecting” with someone on that level is a wonderful thing. Enjoy it, revel in it, even write a song about it if you want, but don’t bet your life on it.”
― The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why?
― The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why?
“Orang yang memendam perasaan seringkali terjebak oleh hatinya sendiri. Sibuk merangkai semua kejadian di sekitarnya untuk membenarkan hatinya berharap. Sibuk menghubungkan banyak hal agar hatinya senang menimbun mimpi. Sehingga suatu ketika dia tidak tahu lagi mana simpul yang nyata dan mana simpul yang dusta.”
― Daun Yang Jatuh Tak Pernah Membenci Angin
― Daun Yang Jatuh Tak Pernah Membenci Angin
“You won’t hear a character’s friend say this in a romantic comedy. Taylor Swift won’t sing this, Eminem won’t rap it, and Suzanne Collins won’t write it, but it’s true: just because you’re “in love” with someone doesn’t mean you should seriously consider marrying them.”
― The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why?
― The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why?
“Discerning someone’s character, true values, and suitability for marriage is hard work. It takes time, counsel, and a healthy dose of objective self-doubt and skepticism. Identifying someone as “God’s chosen” or Plato’s “soul mate” is comparatively easy. You “feel” it in your gut. It seems right. You can’t imagine anyone else. You must have found the one!”
― The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why?
― The Sacred Search: What If It's Not about Who You Marry, But Why?
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