Zizi Brian

“We teach girls to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller. We say to girls, you can have ambition, but not too much. You should aim to be successful, but not too successful. Otherwise, you would threaten the man. Because I am female, I am expected to aspire to marriage. I am expected to make my life choices always keeping in mind that marriage is the most important. Now marriage can be a source of joy and love and mutual support but why do we teach girls to aspire to marriage and we don’t teach boys the same? We raise girls to see each other as competitors not for jobs or accomplishments, which I think can be a good thing, but for the attention of men. We teach girls that they cannot be sexual beings in the way that boys are.”
― Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, We Should All Be Feminists

“What the eye doesn't see, the heart doesn't grieve about.”
― James Hadley Chase

“Distance sometimes lets you know who is worth keeping, and who is worth letting go.”
― Lana Del Rey

“Our love was a two-person game. At least until one of us died, and the other became a murderer.
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― Dark Jar Tin Zoo, Love Quotes for the Ages. Specifically Ages 19-91.