Myriam St-Denis Lisée

“We know we're expecting a great deal of courage by suggesting that you start exploring polyamory without relying on rules to feel safe. It does seem that the secret to healthy, dynamic relationships keeps coming back to courage. Forget training wheels. Forget trying to figure the right rules that will keep you safe forever ; there is no safe forever. Instead, go into the world seeking to threat others with compassion whenever you touch them. Try to leave people better than when you found them. Communicate your needs. Understand and advocate for you boundaries. And look for other people who will do the same. Trust them when they say they love you; where communication and compassion exist, you don't need rules to keep you safe. We don't learn how to be compassionate by disenfranchising other people; we learn how to be compassionate by practicing compassion.”
― Franklin Veaux, More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

“Anyone should be able to reopen discussions about an agreement at any time. It helps to think of agreements as mutable, organic things that will be revisited and modified as people grow and relationships change. When we see these structures as static, they can make relationships less rather than more stable, because they will fail to adapt to change...sometimes spectaculary.
A good relationship is not something you have, it's something you do. Over and over, the best, happiest relationships we have seen and been involved in are those whose members are constantly willing to renegociate the goundwork beneath them. In fact, some people set periodic dates in their calendar when they will review their relationship agreements with each other to make sure they're still working and see if anything needs to change.”
― Franklin Veaux, More Than Two: A Practical Guide to Ethical Polyamory

“You cannot find peace by avoiding life.”
― Michael Cunningham, The Hours

“Il n'existe pas de bons voyageurs ou de mauvais touristes [...], il n'y a que des femmes et des hommes qui écoutent et respectent les autres et eux-même (en voyage ou non), et puis il y a les autres.”
― Franck Michel, Éloge du voyage désorganisé