“I keep thinking grief feels like climbing a staircase while looking down,” she said. “You won’t forget where you’ve been, but you’ve got to keep rising. It all gets farther away, but it’s all still there. And you’ve only got one way to go and you don’t really want to go on rising, but you’ve got to. And that tightness in your chest doesn’t go away, but you somehow go on breathing that thinner, higher air. It’s like you grow a third lung. Like you’ve somehow gotten bigger when you thought you were only broken.”
― After the Flood
― After the Flood
“New Normal, which is what I call what happens when your universe is shaken so badly you can never regain the same axis as before. But you try anyway.”
― Firekeeper's Daughter
― Firekeeper's Daughter
“You can’t control the bad things that happen to you. All you can do is decide how much of you you’re going to let them take.”
― The Happy Ever After Playlist
― The Happy Ever After Playlist
“When someone dies, everything about them becomes past tense. Except for the grief. Grief stays in the present.”
― Firekeeper's Daughter
― Firekeeper's Daughter
“Sometimes the hardest place to live is the one in-between.”
― The Happy Ever After Playlist
― The Happy Ever After Playlist
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