“And unable to communicate out of fear of hurting other people even when one has something to assert, one may end up abandoning what one really wants to do.”
― The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness
― The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness
“What should one do to not be disliked by anyone? There is only one answer: It is to constantly gauge other people’s feelings while swearing loyalty to all of them. If there are ten people, one must swear loyalty to all ten. When one does that, for the time being one will have succeeded in not being disliked by anyone. But at this point, there is a great contradiction looming. One swears loyalty to all ten people out of the single-minded desire to not be disliked.”
― The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness
― The Courage to Be Disliked: The Japanese Phenomenon That Shows You How to Change Your Life and Achieve Real Happiness
“What Nixon sought throughout the Cold War was a stable international order for a world filled with nuclear weapons.”
― On China
― On China
“As a result of a lifetime of unmet needs, you may consistently feel resentful, unfulfilled, or needy.”
― How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self
― How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self
“Many of our core beliefs, unfortunately, are shaped by traumas.”
― How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self
― How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self
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