Elizabeth

“made me wonder whether our ability and desire to interact with strangers is another muscle that risks atrophy in the smartphone world.”
― Aziz Ansari, Modern Romance: An Investigation

“Among the older lovers, brain regions associated with anxiety were no longer active; instead, there was activity in the areas associated with calmness.”1 Neurologically it’s similar to the kind of love you feel for an old friend or a family member.”
― Aziz Ansari, Modern Romance: An Investigation

“How do we figure out when to call, when to text, and when to just drop everything, stand outside someone’s window, and serenade them with your favorite nineties R&B tune, perhaps “All My Life” by K-Ci & JoJo?”
― Aziz Ansari, Modern Romance: An Investigation

“But let’s all realize we are in the same boat dealing with the same shit. So if you aren’t into someone, before just ignoring them, try to be mindful of how frustrating it is to be on the other side of that and maybe try crafting them an honest message or, at the least, lie and say: “Hey, sorry, working on my debut rap album, Fantabulous, so gonna be in the studio nonstop and need to focus, not dating at the moment. I’m very flattered though and you are a great person, all the best.”  •”
― Aziz Ansari, Modern Romance: An Investigation