Doug Boude

“Let me remind you right now though of this one thing: your wife is not a child. Your wife is your equal, your partner, your peer, and a whole host of other things, none of which give her any less rank in the home and marriage than you have. So, though your natural inclination when she makes a mistake may be to judge, correct, and/or reprove her, you may NOT do so. ... You've been tasked to be many, many things to your Queen, my son, but disciplinarian is not one of them.”
― Ilya Atani, The Good Husband's Bible

“Silence (in a relationship) is never your friend. Communication is the pathway to healing and growth”
― Ilya Atani, The Good Husband's Bible

“In all of your relationships, romantic or not, GIVE. Practice it. You get good at what you practice, and sometimes you even become great.”
― Ilya Atani, The Good Husband's Bible

“When a man does not trust his wife's fidelity, it is entirely possible that it is because the man's own fidelity is wavering, or worse, foundered.”
― Ilya Atani, The Good Husband's Bible