“...Everything I had learned or assimilated from my parents I now regarded as unreliable, and needing to be rethought from scratch. In fact, I probably went further-I felt that everything my parents believed was by definition wrong, and that if I ever felt myself in agreement with my parents I should immediately recant. Everything... needed to be jettisoned. But in a way what they said wasn't the problem: what I was more worried about was the attitudes, prejudices, beliefs I might have picked up from them subconsciously or before I was old enough to even know what I was learning. Effectively, I had to question everything I believed, and never accept my own instincts. It required constant vigilance; it was intellectually exhausting.”
― An Education: My Life Might Have Turned Out Differently if I Had Just Said No
― An Education: My Life Might Have Turned Out Differently if I Had Just Said No
“You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks, or even months over-analyzing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened... or you can just leave the pieces on the floor and move the fuck on.”
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“Happiness in intelligent people is the rarest thing I know.”
― The Garden of Eden
― The Garden of Eden
“Sometimes you can’t let go of the past without facing it again.”
― The Samurai's Garden
― The Samurai's Garden
“Constant vigilance!”
― Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire
― Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire
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