“It’s a big deal to share your grief with other people—to give them a glimpse of the pain you carry.”
― Things You Save in a Fire
― Things You Save in a Fire
“It's amazing how brave you can be when you feel safe.”
― Things You Save in a Fire
― Things You Save in a Fire
“Forgiveness is about a mind-set of letting go.” She thought for a second, then said, “It’s about acknowledging to yourself that someone hurt you, and accepting that.” Done, I thought. “Then it’s about accepting that the person who hurt you is flawed, like all people are, and letting that guide you to a better, more nuanced understanding of what happened.”
― Things You Save in a Fire
― Things You Save in a Fire
“You let your grief make you bitter. You let your suffering make you cruel. Want to know what that makes you? A villain. That's every comic book villain ever! They suffer, and then they inflict suffering on others. Good guys do the opposite. Good guys suffer, too - but they respond by helping.”
― Things You Save in a Fire
― Things You Save in a Fire
“It’s not the easy moments that define who we are. It’s the hard ones.”
― Things You Save in a Fire
― Things You Save in a Fire
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