when it comes to beating any kind of destructive habit, one of the most effective tools we have is called “pre-commitment.”
“Gloria Steinem said, “The truth will set you free. But first it will piss you off.” What she didn’t say is how to get from being pissed off to being free. They way to do it is to complete the cycle, walk through the tunnel.”
― Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
― Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
“Perfectionists set goals that are impossible—and if they somehow manage to achieve a goal, they assume that goal must be worthless and they set another, even more impossible goal. Which puts them in a state of perpetual dissatisfaction.”
― Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
― Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
“But then, when women start to think concretely about it, they begin to discover a sense that they need their self-criticism in order to stay motivated. We believe it does us good to torture ourselves, at least a little bit. As in: “If I stop beating myself up for the ways I’m not perfect, that’s like admitting to the world—and to myself—that I’ll never be perfect, that I’m permanently inadequate! I need my self-criticism in order to maintain hope and to motivate myself to get better.”
― Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
― Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life
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