“By turning our backs on other loves, we confirm the uniqueness of our “significant other.” “I have found The One. I can stop looking.” Miraculously, our desire for others is supposed to evaporate, vanquished by the power of this singular attraction.”
― The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
― The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
“We expect one person to give us what once an entire village used to provide, and we live twice as long.”
― The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
― The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
“We seek connection, predictability, and dependability to root us firmly in place. But we also have a need for change, for the unexpected, for transcendence. The Greeks understood this, which is why they worshiped both Apollo (representative of the rational and self-disciplined) and Dionysus (representative of the spontaneous, sensuous, and emotional).”
― The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
― The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
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