Josh

“Certain religious teachings implicitly or explicitly damn sex, damn pleasure, damn the body, damn ambition, damn material success, damn (for all practical purposes) the enjoyment of life on Earth. If children are indoctrinated with these teachings, what will the practice of "integrity" mean in their lives? Some elements of "hypocrisy" may be all that keeps them alive”
― Nathaniel Branden, Six Pillars of Self-Esteem

“We are the one species that can formulate a vision of what values are worth pursuing--and then pursue the opposite.”
― Nathaniel Branden, Six Pillars of Self-Esteem

“I was acutely conscious of the pressure to "adapt" and to absorb the values of the "tribe"--family, community, and culture. It seemed to me that what was asked was the surrender of my judgement and also my conviction that my life and what I made of it was of the highest possible value. I saw my contemporaries surrendering and losing their fire--and, sometimes in painful, lonely bewilderment, I wanted to understand why. Why was growing up equated with giving up?”
― Nathaniel Branden, Six Pillars of Self-Esteem

“Sometimes people who feel fear in the human realm drop to a very low level of consciousness in their relationships and seek the safety and security of competence in the impersonal world of machines, mathematics, or abstract thought. No matter what heights they may attain professionally, their self esteem remains flawed. We cannot with impunity run from so important an aspect of life”
― Nathaniel Branden, Six Pillars of Self-Esteem