Nothingbutlove

“But with trust we can strive to accept even what we cannot understand.”
― Christopher Ryan, Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality

“No group-living nonhuman primate is monogamous, and adultery has been documented in every human culture studied- including those in which fornicators are routinely stoned to death. In light of all of this bloody retribution, it's hard to see how monogamy comes "naturally" to our species. Why would so many risk their reputations, families, careers- even presidential legacies- for something that runs against human nature? Were monogamy an ancient, evolved trait characteristic of our species, as the standard narrative insists, these ubiquitous transgressions would be infrequent and such horrible enforcement unnecessary.
No creature needs to be threatened with death to act in accord with its own nature.”
― Christopher Ryan , Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality

“the bigger the society is, the less functional shame becomes.”
― Christopher Ryan, Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality

“Remember the Tenth Commandment: "Thou shalt not covert thy neighbors house, thou shalt not covert thy neighbors wife, nor his manservant, nor his maidservant, nor his ox,nor his ass, nor any thing that [is] thy neighbor's." Clearly, the biggest loser (aside from slaves, perhaps) in the agricultural revolution was the human female, who went from occupying a central respected role in foraging societies to becoming another possession for a man to earn and defend, along with his house, slaves, and livestock.”
― Cacilda Jethá, Sex at Dawn: The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality