It is a formula for unwitting ignorance, fear and misunderstanding, that can lead to the belligerent forms of intolerance that are the opposite of America’s original goals for its citizens of many cultures.
“Monogamy has been used historically and currently as a capitalist and patriarchal tool for controlling women, and for keeping all people in small, docile units where they are isolated and unable to connect and organize (especially in minority-world cultures). This keeps resistance to a bare minimum.”
― Bi: Notes for a Bisexual Revolution
― Bi: Notes for a Bisexual Revolution
“What is left if we eliminate orientation—or if it changes willy-nilly? Is there anything solid to me at all, anything I can count on?”
― The Fixed Stars
― The Fixed Stars
“A little lying never hurt anybody. It kept the bounds of what one person was distinct from what another person was.”
― Death in Her Hands
― Death in Her Hands
“It was comforting to have an animal, so consistently near and needy, to focus on, to nurture. Just to have another heart beating in the room, a live energy, had cheered me. I hadn’t realized how lonely I’d been, and then suddenly I wasn’t alone at all. I had a dog. Never again would I be alone, I thought. What a gift to have such a companion, like a child and protector, both, something wiser than me in so many ways, and yet doting, loyal, and affectionate.”
― Death in Her Hands
― Death in Her Hands
“Of course: under gender we find the bare thing, the person themself.”
― The Fixed Stars
― The Fixed Stars
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