“I wanted what we all want: everything. We want a mate who feels like family and a lover who is exotic, surprising. We want to be youthful adventurers and middle-aged mothers. We want intimacy and autonomy, safety and stimulation, reassurance and novelty, coziness and thrills. But we can’t have it all.”
― The Rules Do Not Apply
― The Rules Do Not Apply
“You've got to understand your limitations. It's your limitations that make you the wonderful disaster you most probably are.”
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“I look at you and you look at me and
deep in our hearts know it
That you weren't much of a muse,
but then I weren't much of a poet”
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deep in our hearts know it
That you weren't much of a muse,
but then I weren't much of a poet”
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“There is nothing I love more than traveling to a place where I know nobody, and where everything will be a surprise, and then writing about it. It’s like having a new lover—even the parts you aren’t crazy about have the crackling fascination of the unfamiliar.”
― The Rules Do Not Apply
― The Rules Do Not Apply
“I am easy here in a way that I am not easy in other places.”
― South and West: From a Notebook
― South and West: From a Notebook
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