“People who knew me and sympathized with me were determined to set me up with the other people they sympathized with and were always surprised when I would turn down their offer of what they thought of as romantic charity. “What’s the harm?” they would ask me, truly surprised. The harm, besides those hours that actually do matter when you barely have one night off every couple of weeks, is the little mark you get on you every time you open up a door to a hope and then close it fast in disappointment. It leaves a nick, or a dent, and those nicks and dents are not invisible. I used to see them all the time.”
― One More Thing: Stories and Other Stories
― One More Thing: Stories and Other Stories
“I rose too high, loved too hard, dared too much. I tried to grasp a star, overreached, and fell.”
― A Dance with Dragons
― A Dance with Dragons
“It’s traumatizing to think that a best friend could become just a friend. That’s because there is virtually no difference between an acquaintance and a friend. But the gulf between a friend and a best friend is enormous and profound.”
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“Love can only be found through the act of loving.”
― By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept
― By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept
“I closed my eyes and let the music flow through me, cleansing my soul of all fear and sin and reminding me that I am always better than I think and stronger than I believe.”
― By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept
― By the River Piedra I Sat Down and Wept
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