Ben Kohns
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“This is what the things can teach us: to fall, patiently to trust our heaviness. Even a bird has to do that before he can fly.”
― A Year with Rilke
― A Year with Rilke
“The opposite of ‘mean’ is ‘doormat,”
― My Evil Mother
― My Evil Mother
“She said that wanting to be liked was a weakness of character.”
― My Evil Mother
― My Evil Mother
“She told me not long ago, “I’m not suicidal, but sometimes I wish I was dead.” This is the point beyond exhaustion, when you can’t see how you’ll ever fill up again. And then she does, through what she calls lunch-money faith: nothing dramatic, and just enough.”
― Dusk, Night, Dawn: On Revival and Courage
― Dusk, Night, Dawn: On Revival and Courage
“Boy, the young are angry at us. Good. This is what usually changes the world, although it’s a new experience to be the us the young are mad at.”
― Dusk, Night, Dawn: On Revival and Courage
― Dusk, Night, Dawn: On Revival and Courage
Ben’s 2025 Year in Books
Take a look at Ben’s Year in Books, including some fun facts about their reading.
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