“spiritual practice is conspiratorial rather than inspirational; it conspires to strip away everything you use to maintain the illusion of certainty, security, and self-identity. Where spiritual writing seeks to bind you all the more tightly to the self you imagine yourself to be, writing as a spiritual practice intends to free you”
― Writing—-The Sacred Art: Beyond the Page to Spiritual Practice
― Writing—-The Sacred Art: Beyond the Page to Spiritual Practice
“You do not play a sonata in order to reach the final chord, and if the meanings of things were simply in ends, composers would write nothing but finales.”
― Wisdom Of Insecurity: A Message for an Age of Anxiety
― Wisdom Of Insecurity: A Message for an Age of Anxiety
“Masturbation is the ongoing love affair that each of us has with ourselves throughout our lifetime.”
― Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving
― Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving
“For me, there is no such thing as “feminist fantasies” or “feminist sex.” Women’s sexual liberation is not about defining what constitutes politically correct sex; it’s about exploring and increasing our erotic joy and pleasure.”
― Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving
― Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving
“We have been so brainwashed by romantic love that when I talk about the importance of couples continuing to masturbate alone, and learning to share masturbation together, some assume I’m against “regular sex.” Not true. I’m all for any sexual activity that makes both partners happy. What I don’t support is “compulsive intercourse” as the only way to be sexual. Instead of assuming the word sex means a penis inside a vagina, we need to realize that there are an infinite number of ways to express our sexuality.”
― Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving
― Sex for One: The Joy of Selfloving
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