

“Personal growth is not like the development of a skill. It does not take place in observable increments that can be measured and charted. Indeed, as we have seen, when we're growing in sensitivity, generosity, and compassion, we're not aware of it, because we're not focusing on ourselves. The recovery of emotional freedom simply does not have the quality, for most of us, of a controllable sequence of transformations. It's more a career of discovering futher and further weaknesses and shedding them in turn.”
― Bonds That Make Us Free: Healing Our Relationship, Coming to Ourselves
― Bonds That Make Us Free: Healing Our Relationship, Coming to Ourselves

“Anything that makes me feel better (or worse) than another is darkness; anything that makes me feel one with others is divine. So the natural instinct to try to lift others by helping them to feel good about themselves relative to others is exactly the wrong way to help. True happiness is found not in a belief that I am better but in the obliteration of any need to be.”
― Falling to Heaven: The Surprising Path to Happiness
― Falling to Heaven: The Surprising Path to Happiness
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