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Troy Terwilliger
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Sometimes we commit to someone without really knowing them…
— Mar 27, 2026 12:09AM
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Troy Terwilliger
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If you "Stop Rushing It," you give the relationship space to breathe. You move from a state of Panic to a state of Presence.
— Mar 26, 2026 11:19PM
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Troy Terwilliger
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ITS NOT YOUR JOB TO IMPROVE YOUR PARTNER
— Mar 26, 2026 10:18PM
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Troy Terwilliger
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Myth —- so you think your relationship ended poorly because you didn’t love yourself selfishly enough? Really?!
— Mar 26, 2026 09:56PM
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Troy Terwilliger
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Some people really have the energy to fight this much. Huh…
— Mar 26, 2026 09:35PM
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Troy Terwilliger
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What the fuck are you fighting about anyway?
— Mar 26, 2026 03:28AM
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Troy Terwilliger
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In the Gottman framework, a Validator is someone who prioritizes verbalizing that they "get" where you’re coming from, even if they don't necessarily agree with the logic.
Since you're reading Fight Right, you'll notice that having a validating partner creates a massive amount of Emotional Capital. It makes the "Royal Road" much smoother because you aren't constantly dodging the "Four Horsemen."
— Mar 26, 2026 02:37AM
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Since you're reading Fight Right, you'll notice that having a validating partner creates a massive amount of Emotional Capital. It makes the "Royal Road" much smoother because you aren't constantly dodging the "Four Horsemen."
Troy Terwilliger
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Criticism, contempt, defensiveness, stonewalling—flooding
— Mar 26, 2026 01:58AM
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