Status Updates From What Women Want--What Men W...

[...] You're only delaying the inevitable. A woman can coast in a relationship if a man is committed and giving her lots of attention, and if he's borderline and nothing better comes along, she can always marry the old standby, but she doesn't respect him.”

[...] Women who are dedicated to their careers may consciously pick inappropriate men, just so they won't be able to get too involved. But they still have these feelings. So you get into relationships knowing they won't work out because you won't let them. Either you go after someone who's unobtainable and he won't commit, so you reject him. Or, you pick someone you won't commit to and you reject him.

Sophia: “Your first reaction when you sleep with a guy is to feel affectionate and nurturant toward him, an emotional bond—despite who he is, even if he's inappropriate or not especially likable. If you sleep with a guy on a regular basis, you're definitely going to have these feelings, and if you like the guy, it's even more true.

[...] Because of this adjustment, heterosexual men did not go outside of established relationships as much as they otherwise might have. Instead, they adjusted to the restrictions of monogamy by designing their sexual activities with their partners to accommodate their ideas of sufficient and diverse sex.

Consequently, most heterosexual men were predominantly monogamous not because they preferred monogamy, but because they adjusted to women's preference for monogamy.

Although there are women who have had more sexual partners than the average man, studies invariably show that some men have had many more partners than any woman has. The Kinsey team proposed that this sex difference was due to men's capacity to be aroused by a greater variety of stimuli, and to the tendency to limit the sexual experience to one encounter and then move on in search of a new partner.

Strip shows for women attempt to create a fun, political atmosphere in which women can defy social conventions and feel liberated by their experience. The female audience is more amused than aroused by the show, and the camaraderie and interaction with their female companions is more important than the interaction with the male dancers.

In viewing heterosexual coitus, women tend to identify with the woman in the film and fantasize that they are the targets of the male actor's desire and attentions. Men, on the other hand, make the woman in the film the object of their lust, and imagine themselves copulating with her.