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“There’s a clear difference between thinking, I like certain aspects of me, too, maybe I should give him a chance? and thinking, Why would he like someone like me? Is he weird? Your self-esteem determines how you feel about the sincerity of others”

“Fear increases when it’s something that you keep to yourself. Instead of suffering alone, it can often be good to share it with someone else, like you’re doing now. And if you don’t want to see your partner’s friends, you don’t have to see them”

“These are all behaviours you had no awareness of until recently, and to realise that you make the same choices time and time again is, in itself, proof you’re getting better.”

I can relate so much to chapter 9 that is insane

“writing can be a way of regarding yourself three-dimensionally”