Status Updates From Levels of Life

'Grief, like death, is banal and unique. So, a banal comparison. When you change your make of car, you suddenly notice how many other cars of the same sort there are on the road. ... When you are widowed, you suddenly notice all the widows and widowers coming towards you. Before, they had been more or less invisible, and they continue to remain so to other drivers, to the unwidowed.'

i hate to say it but I'm kinda really bored

поки мало що зрозуміло, але цікаво👀