Status Updates From Boundaries: When to Say Yes...

you know a girl messed you up when you start reading books about attachment styles and setting boundaries. it was completely my fault tho and all of my relationships have failed because i was immature when i thought i wasn’t! the Lord has a strange way of revealing things to us. this book has a lot of scripture it’s really cool! i’ve always struggled with being a people pleaser so i’m excited to keep reading

Wait, wait. God tells us “no”, so we should respect His boundary and His “no”, but He also wants us to be persistent if it’s something we really want? Which is it? How do I know which “no” He will change His mind on and which one I am pushing it by ignoring His boundary and not respecting His “no”? I was with the book until this contradiction.