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Fear Self vs True Self

1. Where is the freedom?
2. Where is the relief?

Reflect on life decisions & consider if one of the four omens was present:

1. Obligation: “what should I do here?”
2. Objectivity: “what’s the right/smartest/strategic move?”
3. Optics: “how will it look? What will people think?”
4. Outcomes: “how will this advance me?”

Underfulfilled Overachiever: striver who believes achievement leads to fulfillment

Destinational Living: actions lead towards concrete end goal, ignoring feelings & desires along the way

Take a shot every time she coins a new term... HAYWALT, UFOA, "True Self" vs. "Fear Self" -- corniness aside, I do think this book speaks to the moment I'm in vis a vis figuring out my next steps in life, career path, how to make the most of my time in DC, etc...