Status Updates From Attached

“She looks back at the whole experience with bewilderment… If only she had met a good guy sooner- one who didn’t continually activate her attachment system- she would have spared herself from the unnecessary scrutiny of her “masochistic borderline personality traits.”

“When our partner is unable to meet our basic attachment needs, we experience a chronic sense of disquiet and tension that leaves us exposed to various ailments.”

“Most people are only as needy as their unmet needs.”