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Can I, in living with absence become the presence that I am hungry for?

Can I be with my longing? Can I allow the emptiness of what is missing from me to remain without attempting to fill it? We rarely listen to what the longing has to say

If you never knew the comfort and safety of a mother’s presence, you will have grown up as I did, unaware of the value in attending with presence to your body’s feelings and needs.

Even when our efforts feel forced, and there is no momentum with our progress, we must aspire to love ourselves more generously

There is a special quality of stillness in a person who encounters their shadow wholeheartedly.

To be baffled and obstructed is what engages creativity.

Vibratory signature: How can I serve you? Do you feel understood? Where is your rapture? What conditions are necessary for your expression and wellbeing?

The world needs your enlargement, your fiery crescendos of rebellion from boring

Many take the path well known but they are only given a half lived life. To those willing to brave the unknown path, the dark thicket, a remembering of love, magic and purpose return.

We accumulate wealth instead of strengthening our values, we feed our bellies instead of nurturing ourselves, we accumulate information instead of insight and we chase status instead of belonging.

The world needs your rebellion, and the true song of your exile.

As the Persian poet Hafiz once said: “Don’t surrender your loneliness so quickly. Let it cut you more deep. Let it ferment and season you, as few human and divine ingredients can.”

“When an inner situation is not made conscious, it happens outside, as fate.”

The healthiest forms of belonging allow for, and even require, periods of exile or separation in order to mature into greater capacities.

“We must mysteriously follow a trail of breadcrumbs prompting us to take greater and greater leaps into the unknown, to build our trust in what is parenting us. One day, sometimes years down the line, we finally understand how the symphony resolves itself”

The feminine values the intelligence of our feelings; the necessity of ceremony and rites of passage, the power of listening and witnessing, holding the significance of intuition and dreams, sensitivity, vulnerability and holding the body’s wisdom.

To feel worth means to feel significant, valuable, appreciated and deserving. It is the state of feeling plenty.