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“Hyper desire for safety can mean low levels of relational connection. Hyper desire for connection can mean low levels of safety”

“The line between healthy discernment and triggers caused by pain from the past is paper thin…is this a warning that could protect me? Or is this a war in my mind I need to work through?…I want to be wise so I can protect myself. But I also don’t want to cause those around me who are trustworthy to unfairly suffer through my suspicions fed by past betrayals”