Status Updates From My Orc Roommate with Benefi...

I always consider it a yellow flag when someone says "it usually annoys me when… "

Yeah, right now their actions don't annoy you, but if you get into a relationship with them, you will be annoyed by them in the future!

No discussion of protection? This might have been a better short story than a whole book.

If you're gonna use this premise, you shouldn't have the pivotal conversation happen before the book starts