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This is cool. It's connecting dysregulation (affect) to disintegration (self) as integral to experiences of shame. It's not simply that one is dysregulated, it's that such dysregulation annihilates the self. Bpd spiral, narcissistic rage, depressive withdrawal, a relationship has collapsed, or perhaps been foisted on you so strongly, you're eclipsed by the violence of the other, perceived or real. Humiliation. Loss.