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In the end, what broke the spell of misery was being told it would end.

I don’t know if I love the desert or my father loves the desert or what, if anything, is the difference.

I wish I could take my self off like a coat. Just for an hour. Just for an afternoon. I’ll come back, I want to promise.

Their desire, soured, turns into rage; the women in my family wear their resentments like bracelets. They will tell you all about them.
They will ruin dinner. They will tell you about your father's family, how they are less cultured or more arrogant, how they never liked them. They will blame their misery on the men.

I am feral with that fear: there is nothing I won't do not to feel it.
Which means I am fated to keep feeling it. Watching him pour himself water, take off his shoes, I am overwhelmed by it, I can see nothing but it: the being left. I am left in a way that feels boundless. There is no bound because he always returns. The rage comes with a kind of seeing: how his eyes dart around the room like a trapped animal.

This is where I run when he is gone, to the past, to the last person I was before him. I pretend to stretch in front of the building, wait for the light to come on, wait to see the outline of a figure. I never do. And what would I do if it appeared? The waiting is a pretense. There is a part of me that believes I'm still there, that if I called my name, I'd emerge.