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A child is receptive to being taken care of or to being directed as long as he experiences himself in dependent mode. Children properly placed in the hierarchy of attachment instinctively want to be taken care of. They spontaneously look up to their parents, turn to them for answers, and defer to them.

These days many people resist the concept of power. As children, some of us knew all too well the power of parents and became painfully aware of its potential for abuse. We are mindful that power leads to temptation and have experienced that those who seek power over others cannot be trusted.

Way too many references to future chapters from the book 🫩

To be imitated may be the greatest compliment, but to be mocked and mimicked is one of the most offensive put-downs.

Since sameness means closeness, pursuing difference is a way of distancing. Such children will often go out of their way to take the opposite point of view and form opposite kinds of preferences. They are filled with contrary opinions and judgments.

When the primary attachment shifts, people hitherto close to us can suddenly become objects of disdain, to be repelled.