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With the way she writes her early love story with Jonas, damn, I think I’m in love with him too!
But, seriously, they are a ridiculously cute couple. Every snippet she reveals about their relationship makes me melt a little. You can feel how much she loves him by the way she describes him & their interactions.
He seems to have understood her from the very beginning & knew he wanted to be with her.

The entire “can I kiss you?” exchange (p. 224-225) is how consent is done, everyone! Asking for consent while giving the person space to answer honestly. Making them feel safe to say “no” if they wish to, & respecting their answer regardless. If they apologize for answering in the negative, reassure them it’s fine & nothing has changed between you.
Also, your person will love you for you, dumb jokes & all.

“I’m so accustomed to being treated like someone’s secret that I can’t fathom being loved out in the open …”
Punch me in the gut right out the gate, Elyse! Damn. I’ve been with my husband for nearly 8 years & I’m still not used to this kind of love. I’m still walled off. Like Elyse, I’m afraid of heartbreak & think it’s too good to be true.
Also, props to Tessa for not forcing small talk.