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‘I literally came across a TikTok the other day that said ‘how to speak to him in your feminine energy’. Sorry, but what does that even mean? Tell him to fuck off nicely in a sing-songy way?’ Fave quote so far xx

i was getting a little scared the whole book was gonna be hand holding entry level feminism but now we talking epigenetics; the neuroprocesses behind the cycle of abuse and now CHUCK BASS mention (in relation to how problematic the glamorisation of all that is) MS. DEE SALMIN IS DELIVERINGGGGG 🍽️🍽️

I’m so frightened my review of this will be mean

I had really high expectations for this and so far I’m a little devastated. Some sentences and the way some things were phrased in regard to de-centring men from your life went from embracing your own autonomy to just what felt like straight out sexism - and I’m a hardcore feminist but to give a platform to saying things that disregard men’s opinions felt yucky